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There are a lot of kids who basically potty train themselves but there are a couple who are utterly resistant against potty training, and will actually turn it into a battle of wills. Because of this, experts suggest that the only way to deal with a strong willed child is to make potty training fun.

To help parents with this, “June was declared as Potty Training Awareness Month” and during this time, parents could call a direct line and talk to pediatricians and child psychologists and ask potty training questions from parenting experts.

This move was made to make parents realize that toilet training is really and that though it can be frustrating sometimes, help is available for them. According to experts, children develop control over their bodily functions at the age of 18 to 19 months but the fact shows that only 4% of children are actually potty trained at the age of two.

Experts agree that there’s no point in toilet training before children are able to control their bodily functions and forcing potty training can result to anxiety and fear of the toilet. It is best that parents prepare their kids for potty training so that they can start learning to be comfortable with the toilet and eliminate procrastination.

Starting potty training too late can allow incorrect patterns of behavior to develop so you too, wouldn’t wait for your child to become ready to potty train themselves, you will need to condition them but you need to start the training right.

Some parents prefer to start potty training during summer or spring since kids need to wear lesser clothes plus, the vacation affords them enough time to master toilet training. One mistake most parents make with potty training is that they become impatient for results.

Frustration can only lead to more mistakes so you better start learning how you can forget the failures. Punishing your child for accidents can only lead to more problems and even more frustrations - something you should definitely avoid. Potty training is more effective if you use a tailored approach. You need to find out what works for your child and focus on the things that your child does right.

It is important that you stay positive and chart your successes. This way, your child will be motivated to continue learning despite the many frustrations he may have encountered during potty training. Get your child to be comfortable with the idea of potty training. This means you need to introduce the potty chair and other potty training supplies early.

Have your child practice putting on his training pants, cleaning up the mess and washing his hands after using the potty chair.

Repeat desired behaviors and be aware of your emotions toward potty training so you don’t transfer negative emotions to your child. Also, be consistent with the training method you are using. Once you’ve stopped using diapers, make sure to keep your child out of them.

Don’t switch back and forth between diapers and training pants. Make everyone else involved with potty training advice - from grandparents to the daycare provider, make sure everyone knows what method you are using.

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If you have been working with your toddler on potty training, you’ve probably had a good number of “accidents”. Accidents in potty training can be discouraging to both child and parent and may make the stretch from diapers seem wider than it really is.

You may feel that you have lost progress when a child suddenly has an accident, but occasional potty training accidents are all part of the process. It may have nothing to do with the success of your technique, but may be the child’s reaction to a change, like a trip to a relative’s house or a birthday party.

When these accidents happen, there are few things to keep in mind. As with many other challenges in child rearing, a positive attitude is the best weapon against potty training accidents. Try to remove the emphasis from the potty training accident itself and place it on making more progress and remembering successes.

Positive feedback is a much more important tool than making negative statements. Celebrating another dry night is more effective than reminding the child he keeps wetting himself.

If potty training accidents start happening frequently, look to external factors to try and diagnose the situation. Your child may have a medical issue like a urinary tract infection or constipation. Remember, he may not have the words to try explain what’s happening or what he feels. He may be putting off going to the toilet because he does not know how to deal with an unfamiliar condition.

Another common reason for regression is the arrival of a sibling. Many couples these days choose to space their kids by about two years. Of course, two is primo potty training time, and you may see a surge in potty training accidents upon the arrival of a newcomer who is suddenly absorbing all parental attention. Respond to this situation with understanding.

Remain firm about your shared goals for potty training, but take time to discuss what’s going on and give your child a chance to talk about his thoughts.

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Mod Monkey is ready to turn your birthday celebration into a great adventure. You can supply it and not drive yourself bananas in the process with some Mod Monkey birthday supplies. Just stock up and get ready for a party!

Start the wild time off right with a Mod Monkey Deluxe Pack. Use the included invitations to call all the other animals to your base camp. Rest assured you will be well supplied. It includes plates, cups, napkins, and lots more. Cover the table with a themed tablecover and you won’t have to worry.

You can tame the animals with no effort. Give each one a Mod Monkey Cone Hat and a blowout and watch their eyes light up when you bring out the cake.

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